Focus now. Forget then.

Why speak of what you did for your ex with so much pain, where you can spend that much energy for that new person you are beginning to like.

Those who want to keep sharing their past aren't dating. They're just clearing their names from faults in their past r/ship.

They are secretly wishing that their ex is Hiding behind a bush & listening to their stories who then will appear out of that bush & pin them a medal/kiss for being a 'martyr'.

& also People who recover quickly from past r/ship hiatuses aren't necessarily bad.

They are just fixated in achieving their goals or solving their own problems passionately.

& That's why I couldn't care much of my past & mention it much even if the fault isn't mine.

Cos I've an aim. Aim to be in love & believe in it. Not be in its painful memories.

Maybe I'm one of those who can keep Falling In Love...

3. Dhanush, Aishwariya, Shruthi Hassan.

So the kolaveri song became a Mega Hit. It got the Japanese grooving to it in their nightspots. Even the Hindi speaking region got addicted to a Tamil item, after Dosas. Not to forget countless remixes,notably the milku number by Sonu Nigam's son. Lastly conquering the gold award in YouTube & even appearing in CNN.

Now the big next question is, did the movie catch up with its hype?
At one scene where Dhanush says to his dad, " this is life paa, not to be successful with one hit song". That dialogue would be well meant for Aishwariya Dhanush on her debutant movie.

So what brownie points did Moonu earn?
Songs. If there is one ultimate winner,
it is Anirudh. One can even say he was another cast, who is just invisible.

Being Aishwarya's cousin or Latha Rajnikanth's nephew, Anirudh had good experience in music all the while. His band Zinx has won the competition judged by his idol AR.Rahman. Obviously he was the competition's best instrumentalist.

But the flaws? Wonder why does Dhanush when cast in movies directed by his relatives, plays mostly a psychotic character? In case you had forgotten, it is Kadhal Kondein, Mayakkam Enna and 3. Could it be, they have seen his frenzy character and placing him in such roles would earn them the dough?

First and foremost, this movie isn't a love story. It's not a love failure like what the Kolaveri song or the trailers tease us with.

It's all about internal failure. Failing to communicate and accepting reality. What I can't accept is that these 2 great lovers who been together for 10 years, wasn't enough for Janani to see Ram's health condition?

Secondly, too much wailing from Janani. She faints, over react & getting overtly sensitive. For sure that didn't earn her much admirers.

Lest not forget the supporting cast Senthil. For he played a much better wife role. He bore Dhanush's hot and cold moods, the cold blood beatings & staying by his side for recovery like a Good Partner.

Thirdly I would like to finish this movie review with a message it was trying to deliver. Failing to communicate with your partner fearing for negative impacts is as good as not trusting him/her. Fearing for being negatively treated by your partner should only be a concern for those who has just starting to date. Not for some 10 years odd lovers.

To sidetrack little, in today's society most couples tend to break up when their relationship is on rocks, unlike our parents that fixes. Likewise Ram character opted suicide than to be cured medically.

Lastly, in any suicide case, the loved ones suffer eternally & not the suicidee. If you need a remedy to overcome 3 ending, watch Mayakkam Enna. Not all disorder needs death as medication.

Be grateful for your misery.

I once read a quote that God pushes us to deep waters not to drown but to learn how to swim & keep ashore.


I'm sure when we look up to great achievers in life, we often get amazed by their rags stories.


Here are some inspirational pasts and present.


Learning to accept the fact that problems we face now a will polish us to be a diamond tomorrow.

You are the highly sought after
Actress in Indian Cinema

But You were once labeled Jinx
by some Movie Industries.

You are modern day World Class Icon for Peace.

But You were once ostrasized, beaten, shamed and outraged

But You were once left all alone
when you needed help the most 

You are knowns as World Class Builder
of 3rd World to 1st World Nation Builder

But You were once sacked by the very guy
whom you hired to build your dream.

Everyone lives, eat and dream by your technology product 

How about you? 

Who were you once?

And who are you now?

Or who will you become tomorrow?

Why do I hate the Tula Raasi- the natives of Chitrai, Swathi & Visagam

They make my life miserable.

These Libran moons. They swoon for others attention. They will act tough, mean & baddies but they flick like a TNT laden car in explosive situations.

Hardly practical, slow movers, egoistic, easy to please & easy to disturb.

One demanded my attention & when that person got it, that person fly away.

The other supposedly not to contact me. But still keeping in touch like nothing has happened.

They leave with hatred & come back like shamelessly.

Highly moody mom who can't handle her stress. Often sharing her problem in futile cos when she shares she only speak & refuse to listen to their solutions.

Dad so egoistic & often bothered less. His own world; freedom, appetite, friends, mattered than anything else. Sometimes he will never get what he's
Missing.

Some few arse holes spoke like their hard macho flirts. But when the gal challenged him with indifference & nonchalance they flew away citing incompatibility like some chaste sons.

Then this nincompoop thinks he's handsome & rich, end up losing more
Money in some court cases. (refer to Nothing should be guaranteed)

Not every1 is bad: they work hard, they last long & make popular centre of attention ESP in family matters. But who cares when this "star of relations" can't handle their lovely other halves.