Sunday, March 25, 2012

Singapore 2012 Marathons


April 2012


Sunday- 01/04/2012 – New Moon Khcycle MetaSprint Series (Duathlon)
Sunday- 01/04/2012 – 2XU Compression Run
Sunday- 08/04/2012 – Best Friend Run 2012
Saturday- 14/04/2012 – Singapore Flyer 5km Run
Saturday- 14/04/2012 – Nike Goddess 5km
Sunday- 22/04/2012 – Run 350
Saturday- 28/04/2012 – Energizer Singapore Night Trail 2012
Sunday- 29/04/2012 – F1 Nature Run

May 2012


Tues-(Labour Day) 01/05/2012 - SIS AGE group run 2012 - 10K
Sunday- 06/05/2012 – New Moon Khcycle MetaSprint Series (Triathlon)
Sunday- 20/05/2012 - Salomon Tiong Bahru Urban Trail Run 2012
Monday- 21/05/2012 – Passion run 2012
Sunday- 20/05/2012 - Cold Storage Kids Run 2012
Saturday- 26/05/2012 – Sundown Marathon 2012

June 2012

Sunday- 17/06/2012 – Mizuno Mount Faber Run 2012
00/06/2012 – Shape Run -TBC
00/06/2012 – Mizuno Mount Faber Run - TBC

July 2012
Saturday- 07/07/2012 – Republic Run 2012
Sunday- 08/07/2012 – Jurong Lake Run
Saturday- 15/07/2012 – Pocari Sweat Run 2012
Sunday- 22/07/2012 – Singtel Race Against Cancer Run
00/07/2012 – Great Eastern Woman’s 10k TBC

September 2012
Sunday- 16/09/2012 - Mizuno Wave Run 2012
o0/09/2012 – SAFRA Army Half Marathon TBC
00/09/2012 – Yellow Ribbon Prison Run TBC

October 2012
00/10/2012 – NorthFace 100 TBC
00/10/2012 – Nike Run TBC
00/10/2012 – HTNS REAL RUN 2012 TBC
00/10/2012 – Newton Challenge 30k TBC
00/10/2012 – Pink Ribbon Run/Walk TBC

November 2012
Sunday- 18/11/2012 - Salomon X-Trail Run
00/11/2012 – Run For Hope TBC
Sunday- 25/11/2012 - Montrail / Mountain Hardware Tiong Bahru Challenge 2012
Sunday- 25/11/2012 - Swissôtel Vertical Marathon 2012

December 2012
Sunday- 02/12/2012 – Standard Chartered Marathon Singapore
Monday- 31/12/2012 – Catwoman challenge

Saturday, March 24, 2012

Listening, understanding and judgment.


A salesperson asks questions to unearth opportunities. He identifies what this individual/organization lacks in terms of services or products so that the salesperson can provide their prospects some money worthy solution and gather their trust. Sometimes their experiences in previous sales could give an advantage in proving their sales pitch.

Therefore it is by asking questions, which leads to information gathering, which then allow us to provide a solution and eventually trusting relationships.

Doctors- ask questions or rather examine their patients, refer to their previous case studies to diagnose proper.

Lawyers refer to their past cases. Understand the psychology of plaintiffs and defendants, later assess the situation and even manipulate to win his client cases.

Who doesn’t judge? Who doesn’t ask questions to help other? Who doesn’t analyze to solve problems?

As a person who has begun to start dating, trust me, there is no escape from the bull shit of judging the opposite person. There is no escape from that act. I rather found it to be very hard but no choice.

When we listen to couples stories, relate to our own mistakes in past relationship; remember our parent’s ways of handling their own relationships etc lead us to lots of pre-determined judgments.

Ever since I’ve been a sales person, where most of my experiences lie in direct selling, I lost count on stories that I’ve heard and even seen. When we meet someone new, chances are they will not disclose us lots of their secrets. Sometimes we ask questions, sometimes we let them speak.
However, to play it safe on whether to fully trust the person on the other side, we let go of our guards by being open. Which in turns lead us to listen to their fantasies, thoughts, mistakes and desires? This pretty much gives us an idea of who they are and what makes them.

Nowadays whenever I get to know a person, I’m no angel that I do judge a person. Often negatively. Sometimes I do that on purpose because it is some kinda thrill and a point of relief when the person I’m getting to know proofs me wrong of my own judgments. I like surprises and the pleasant ones like these could lead even put me in peace.

However, even my subconscious mantra of not to judge a book by often faces its own challenges. I just can’t help but to ‘kill’ some of them off. It is about who I want to spend the rest of my life with and who wouldn’t wanna make clearest choices. தவளை தன் வாயால் கெடும். Some I met just speak to their own death. Some were impressive however again faults could be on my side. As usual no regrets cos I’m a very confident girl who loves the single hood. (sometimes I’ve to stop hating being single).

And now I clearly know one thing right. It is like studying in a university with no clarity. Not sure how many modules left, when will one graduate, who is the “teacher” but am just enjoying the journey of education. I’ve made lotsa mistakes, hurt people unknowingly and have spoken venomous words.
Let this be a space where I can just forget and forgive whoever has crossed into my path. Cheers….

Thursday, March 22, 2012

Who is the closest?

Thank you for your finding Ms Jill Y.

I was affected on not knowing why I wasn't able to have any liking of few men recently whom I've been meeting.
As usual the lady above has given my a psycho analysis and was kind enough to give me this report below.

why not you read and tell me of this 2 which one is meant for me

She is compulsive and intense. He or she tends to explode when angry and finds it difficult to forgive and forget. This person is passionate and seductive and has a tendency toward all-or-nothing extremes. The strong sexual energy in her is sometimes channeled into more productive pursuits and these people have the energy, drive and determination to achieve what they want.

A man who possesses a magnetic charisma is rather the type. She is attracted to men who are intense and passionate, usually the silent, brooding type. This female possesses a strong sexual magnetism and likely has many willing suitors, however, she will not settle for a man who does not match her in will-power and strength. She needs to be desired and may be turned on by a man who is slightly possessive of her. This woman needs a passionate man who has a raw sexual energy.

or

Eager and enthusiastic, this person falls in love often and quickly. Friendship is important to her and once a prospective partner has proven that he or she can be this person’s best friend, love blossoms. This person can be quite confident and arrogant about his or her abilities and may appear foolish at times when he or she becomes too cocky. A positive attitude and uplifting spirit are characteristic of the person.

Such person want a man who offers friendship and fun. She is attracted to men who possess a sense-of-humor, honesty and integrity. Sharing adventures or sports with her man is particularly arousing to this female. Relationships with her usually start out as friendships and often her romances fade into friendships over time. She cannot tolerate a man who is possessive or jealous and needs a man who is as independent as she is.

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