They make my life miserable.
These Libran moons. They swoon for others attention. They will act tough, mean & baddies but they flick like a TNT laden car in explosive situations.
Hardly practical, slow movers, egoistic, easy to please & easy to disturb.
One demanded my attention & when that person got it, that person fly away.
The other supposedly not to contact me. But still keeping in touch like nothing has happened.
They leave with hatred & come back like shamelessly.
Highly moody mom who can't handle her stress. Often sharing her problem in futile cos when she shares she only speak & refuse to listen to their solutions.
Dad so egoistic & often bothered less. His own world; freedom, appetite, friends, mattered than anything else. Sometimes he will never get what he's
Missing.
Some few arse holes spoke like their hard macho flirts. But when the gal challenged him with indifference & nonchalance they flew away citing incompatibility like some chaste sons.
Then this nincompoop thinks he's handsome & rich, end up losing more
Money in some court cases. (refer to Nothing should be guaranteed)
Not every1 is bad: they work hard, they last long & make popular centre of attention ESP in family matters. But who cares when this "star of relations" can't handle their lovely other halves.
Wednesday, April 4, 2012
Sunday, March 25, 2012
Singapore 2012 Marathons
April 2012
Sunday- 01/04/2012 – New Moon Khcycle MetaSprint Series (Duathlon)
Sunday- 01/04/2012 – 2XU Compression Run
Sunday- 08/04/2012 – Best Friend Run 2012
Saturday- 14/04/2012 – Singapore Flyer 5km Run
Saturday- 14/04/2012 – Nike Goddess 5km
Sunday- 22/04/2012 – Run 350
Saturday- 28/04/2012 – Energizer Singapore Night Trail 2012
Sunday- 29/04/2012 – F1 Nature Run
May 2012
Tues-(Labour Day) 01/05/2012 - SIS AGE group run 2012 - 10K
Sunday- 06/05/2012 – New Moon Khcycle MetaSprint Series (Triathlon)
Sunday- 20/05/2012 - Salomon Tiong Bahru Urban Trail Run 2012
Monday- 21/05/2012 – Passion run 2012
Sunday- 20/05/2012 - Cold Storage Kids Run 2012
Saturday- 26/05/2012 – Sundown Marathon 2012
June 2012
Sunday- 17/06/2012 – Mizuno Mount Faber Run 2012
00/06/2012 – Shape Run -TBC
00/06/2012 – Mizuno Mount Faber Run - TBC
July 2012
Saturday- 07/07/2012 – Republic Run 2012
Sunday- 08/07/2012 – Jurong Lake Run
Saturday- 15/07/2012 – Pocari Sweat Run 2012
Sunday- 22/07/2012 – Singtel Race Against Cancer Run
00/07/2012 – Great Eastern Woman’s 10k TBC
September 2012
Sunday- 16/09/2012 - Mizuno Wave Run 2012
o0/09/2012 – SAFRA Army Half Marathon TBC
00/09/2012 – Yellow Ribbon Prison Run TBC
October 2012
00/10/2012 – NorthFace 100 TBC
00/10/2012 – Nike Run TBC
00/10/2012 – HTNS REAL RUN 2012 TBC
00/10/2012 – Newton Challenge 30k TBC
00/10/2012 – Pink Ribbon Run/Walk TBC
November 2012
Sunday- 18/11/2012 - Salomon X-Trail Run
00/11/2012 – Run For Hope TBC
Sunday- 25/11/2012 - Montrail / Mountain Hardware Tiong Bahru Challenge 2012
Sunday- 25/11/2012 - Swissôtel Vertical Marathon 2012
December 2012
Sunday- 02/12/2012 – Standard Chartered Marathon Singapore
Monday- 31/12/2012 – Catwoman challenge
Saturday, March 24, 2012
Listening, understanding and judgment.
A salesperson asks questions to unearth opportunities. He identifies what this individual/organization lacks in terms of services or products so that the salesperson can provide their prospects some money worthy solution and gather their trust. Sometimes their experiences in previous sales could give an advantage in proving their sales pitch.
Therefore it is by asking questions, which leads to information gathering, which then allow us to provide a solution and eventually trusting relationships.
Doctors- ask questions or rather examine their patients, refer to their previous case studies to diagnose proper.
Lawyers refer to their past cases. Understand the psychology of plaintiffs and defendants, later assess the situation and even manipulate to win his client cases.
Who doesn’t judge? Who doesn’t ask questions to help other? Who doesn’t analyze to solve problems?
As a person who has begun to start dating, trust me, there is no escape from the bull shit of judging the opposite person. There is no escape from that act. I rather found it to be very hard but no choice.
When we listen to couples stories, relate to our own mistakes in past relationship; remember our parent’s ways of handling their own relationships etc lead us to lots of pre-determined judgments.
Ever since I’ve been a sales person, where most of my experiences lie in direct selling, I lost count on stories that I’ve heard and even seen. When we meet someone new, chances are they will not disclose us lots of their secrets. Sometimes we ask questions, sometimes we let them speak.
However, to play it safe on whether to fully trust the person on the other side, we let go of our guards by being open. Which in turns lead us to listen to their fantasies, thoughts, mistakes and desires? This pretty much gives us an idea of who they are and what makes them.
Nowadays whenever I get to know a person, I’m no angel that I do judge a person. Often negatively. Sometimes I do that on purpose because it is some kinda thrill and a point of relief when the person I’m getting to know proofs me wrong of my own judgments. I like surprises and the pleasant ones like these could lead even put me in peace.
However, even my subconscious mantra of not to judge a book by often faces its own challenges. I just can’t help but to ‘kill’ some of them off. It is about who I want to spend the rest of my life with and who wouldn’t wanna make clearest choices. தவளை தன் வாயால் கெடும். Some I met just speak to their own death. Some were impressive however again faults could be on my side. As usual no regrets cos I’m a very confident girl who loves the single hood. (sometimes I’ve to stop hating being single).
And now I clearly know one thing right. It is like studying in a university with no clarity. Not sure how many modules left, when will one graduate, who is the “teacher” but am just enjoying the journey of education. I’ve made lotsa mistakes, hurt people unknowingly and have spoken venomous words.
Let this be a space where I can just forget and forgive whoever has crossed into my path. Cheers….
Thursday, March 22, 2012
Who is the closest?
Thank you for your finding Ms Jill Y.
I was affected on not knowing why I wasn't able to have any liking of few men recently whom I've been meeting.
As usual the lady above has given my a psycho analysis and was kind enough to give me this report below.
why not you read and tell me of this 2 which one is meant for me
She is compulsive and intense. He or she tends to explode when angry and finds it difficult to forgive and forget. This person is passionate and seductive and has a tendency toward all-or-nothing extremes. The strong sexual energy in her is sometimes channeled into more productive pursuits and these people have the energy, drive and determination to achieve what they want.
A man who possesses a magnetic charisma is rather the type. She is attracted to men who are intense and passionate, usually the silent, brooding type. This female possesses a strong sexual magnetism and likely has many willing suitors, however, she will not settle for a man who does not match her in will-power and strength. She needs to be desired and may be turned on by a man who is slightly possessive of her. This woman needs a passionate man who has a raw sexual energy.
or
Eager and enthusiastic, this person falls in love often and quickly. Friendship is important to her and once a prospective partner has proven that he or she can be this person’s best friend, love blossoms. This person can be quite confident and arrogant about his or her abilities and may appear foolish at times when he or she becomes too cocky. A positive attitude and uplifting spirit are characteristic of the person.
Such person want a man who offers friendship and fun. She is attracted to men who possess a sense-of-humor, honesty and integrity. Sharing adventures or sports with her man is particularly arousing to this female. Relationships with her usually start out as friendships and often her romances fade into friendships over time. She cannot tolerate a man who is possessive or jealous and needs a man who is as independent as she is.
I was affected on not knowing why I wasn't able to have any liking of few men recently whom I've been meeting.
As usual the lady above has given my a psycho analysis and was kind enough to give me this report below.
why not you read and tell me of this 2 which one is meant for me
She is compulsive and intense. He or she tends to explode when angry and finds it difficult to forgive and forget. This person is passionate and seductive and has a tendency toward all-or-nothing extremes. The strong sexual energy in her is sometimes channeled into more productive pursuits and these people have the energy, drive and determination to achieve what they want.
A man who possesses a magnetic charisma is rather the type. She is attracted to men who are intense and passionate, usually the silent, brooding type. This female possesses a strong sexual magnetism and likely has many willing suitors, however, she will not settle for a man who does not match her in will-power and strength. She needs to be desired and may be turned on by a man who is slightly possessive of her. This woman needs a passionate man who has a raw sexual energy.
or
Eager and enthusiastic, this person falls in love often and quickly. Friendship is important to her and once a prospective partner has proven that he or she can be this person’s best friend, love blossoms. This person can be quite confident and arrogant about his or her abilities and may appear foolish at times when he or she becomes too cocky. A positive attitude and uplifting spirit are characteristic of the person.
Such person want a man who offers friendship and fun. She is attracted to men who possess a sense-of-humor, honesty and integrity. Sharing adventures or sports with her man is particularly arousing to this female. Relationships with her usually start out as friendships and often her romances fade into friendships over time. She cannot tolerate a man who is possessive or jealous and needs a man who is as independent as she is.
Monday, January 9, 2012
love ready but non fear proof.
been engulfed in talks and topics of marriage, partnership and settle down.
naturally being practical, i knew the time has come and started looking around at some web portals...
over there, there are some who are sincere but u know that there's no connection in mind, style, appearance, character, background and experiences. one may cite the difference to nationality, language and culture.
then there are some who are too eager to please. just because i'm singaporean and not an inch like an indian conservative gal, they start talking abt their shallow encounters of their expereince with opposite sex. like who they had some wierd/unconventional relationships with, kind of woman they had bed expereince, trips with other gals and blah blah blah. this is what i call dog digging a hole thinking it would preserve what it has found but on contrary has fallen in its own hole.
but this moment is like studying in an unknown faculty that has unknown years of course duration, unknown future but with aims to graduate. marriage. if you think staying happily married is challenging, you have not experienced dating with preference. it sucks even more.
love is like the ocean. deeper you go the more you realise. you might even be suffocated to breath being a first timer. but if you're well prepared with the right gear, why fear. go for it. even for myself literally speaking diving in the ocean and not feeling the sea bed of sand is like pulling it down. the day i can feel it is the day he's the one right beside me.
naturally being practical, i knew the time has come and started looking around at some web portals...
over there, there are some who are sincere but u know that there's no connection in mind, style, appearance, character, background and experiences. one may cite the difference to nationality, language and culture.
then there are some who are too eager to please. just because i'm singaporean and not an inch like an indian conservative gal, they start talking abt their shallow encounters of their expereince with opposite sex. like who they had some wierd/unconventional relationships with, kind of woman they had bed expereince, trips with other gals and blah blah blah. this is what i call dog digging a hole thinking it would preserve what it has found but on contrary has fallen in its own hole.
but this moment is like studying in an unknown faculty that has unknown years of course duration, unknown future but with aims to graduate. marriage. if you think staying happily married is challenging, you have not experienced dating with preference. it sucks even more.
love is like the ocean. deeper you go the more you realise. you might even be suffocated to breath being a first timer. but if you're well prepared with the right gear, why fear. go for it. even for myself literally speaking diving in the ocean and not feeling the sea bed of sand is like pulling it down. the day i can feel it is the day he's the one right beside me.
Sunday, January 1, 2012
What can I not do?
I wonder my guts to do Lotsa lotsa things .
Argue with higher authorities
Smoke
Go weed
Gamble
Lose tonnes of money in gambling
Play football
Go countries without passport
Go backpacking
Little of here n there.
Except
Except
Except
Falling in love. Why why why??? So phobic. So egoistic.
Feeling dejected. Feeling dependent. Feeling lonely.
All When there is love . Someone special
Argue with higher authorities
Smoke
Go weed
Gamble
Lose tonnes of money in gambling
Play football
Go countries without passport
Go backpacking
Little of here n there.
Except
Except
Except
Falling in love. Why why why??? So phobic. So egoistic.
Feeling dejected. Feeling dependent. Feeling lonely.
All When there is love . Someone special
Sunday, August 21, 2011
The best coffee makers should be regarded as the people of best service.
I don't remember waking up thinking what shall I do for the day. That is hardly the case. However, I do remember waking up and heading to the kitchen for my morning bed beverage. Yes you are right, It is COFFEE!!!.
All I'll need is Just a 1 and a half teaspoon of Nescafe, 1tsp creamer and 1/2 tsp raw sugar and that brews me a half mug of coffee.
As usual I sip my cuppa without brushing my teeth.
For I find it to be a sin to drink coffee in fluoride breath.
There were times when I would walk into deli-france for a cappuccino take-away before heading office. I would be welcomed to some deafening noises those coffee machines create while grinding those beans. Never mind those noise shrilling through my ear drums. I know that soon my nostrils will be treated to a sensual fragrance coming from those powdered java beans.
Sometimes you cant see the entire coffee preparation but let me share with you my 3 yrs of part-time barista experience on what exactly happens behind that Red LAVAZZO Magic Machine.
First a lever at the bottom of the coffee container would be pulled twice which then dispenses 10+ grams of ground coffee into the portafilter. Then a metal tamper will be forced onto it to level the powdered coffee bean. Usually a couple of metal knocking sound would follow by. This brings the untampered powder around the portafiler rim into the caked coffee bean. The barista would again tamper the portafiler to ensure no granules of coffee powder is left behind before fixing it into the Espresso Machine.
Hmmmmmm... Within seconds what a pleasant smell from the scalding coffee. Whilst the machine is slowly brewing my espresso, the barista would opens up the fridge and pour a generous amount of ice cold milk onto the Steaming Pitchers for my cappuccino froth.
The milk pitcher will be placed into a hot pipe venting out steam. Slowly this steam brings toa muffled boiling sound. Now that indicates that my milk is warm and frothed. She will then pour the rich foamy milk on my fresh espresso and Viola.. there is my Cuppaccino.
MMMMmmmmm...Now that's a sight.
Then before she closes my paper cup with the lid, she will stop immediately and sprinkle a generous amount of cocoa dust without me to interrupt her. Just the way I like it. Now This is what i call family-like service. Her smile, service, and that "See you again Nithya" is so worth spending a recurring $5.00.
Coming up soon... My Fave chinese Coffee Man from Tampines Round Market...
All I'll need is Just a 1 and a half teaspoon of Nescafe, 1tsp creamer and 1/2 tsp raw sugar and that brews me a half mug of coffee.
As usual I sip my cuppa without brushing my teeth.
For I find it to be a sin to drink coffee in fluoride breath.
There were times when I would walk into deli-france for a cappuccino take-away before heading office. I would be welcomed to some deafening noises those coffee machines create while grinding those beans. Never mind those noise shrilling through my ear drums. I know that soon my nostrils will be treated to a sensual fragrance coming from those powdered java beans.
Sometimes you cant see the entire coffee preparation but let me share with you my 3 yrs of part-time barista experience on what exactly happens behind that Red LAVAZZO Magic Machine.
First a lever at the bottom of the coffee container would be pulled twice which then dispenses 10+ grams of ground coffee into the portafilter. Then a metal tamper will be forced onto it to level the powdered coffee bean. Usually a couple of metal knocking sound would follow by. This brings the untampered powder around the portafiler rim into the caked coffee bean. The barista would again tamper the portafiler to ensure no granules of coffee powder is left behind before fixing it into the Espresso Machine.
Hmmmmmm... Within seconds what a pleasant smell from the scalding coffee. Whilst the machine is slowly brewing my espresso, the barista would opens up the fridge and pour a generous amount of ice cold milk onto the Steaming Pitchers for my cappuccino froth.
The milk pitcher will be placed into a hot pipe venting out steam. Slowly this steam brings toa muffled boiling sound. Now that indicates that my milk is warm and frothed. She will then pour the rich foamy milk on my fresh espresso and Viola.. there is my Cuppaccino.
MMMMmmmmm...Now that's a sight.
Then before she closes my paper cup with the lid, she will stop immediately and sprinkle a generous amount of cocoa dust without me to interrupt her. Just the way I like it. Now This is what i call family-like service. Her smile, service, and that "See you again Nithya" is so worth spending a recurring $5.00.
Coming up soon... My Fave chinese Coffee Man from Tampines Round Market...
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