Sunday, December 28, 2008

No way Am I doing that...

No way I'm getting married. Few months ago, I almost fell into that trap of marriage. Thought is fun to get married, BUT HELL NO:

I'm not handling 1.unruly children, 2.my horny man, 3.bossy in laws, 4.ageing parents.

How do I wish that cohabitation is cool here...
I cant handle juggle roll and please others in the name of marriage.

Can I just be in love, just be in love with my job, holidays planning and executing it, nice cosy home, make love with my man & be free

Just a mini car driving us wild not the children.

A small garden where we plan and appreciate our hardwork and let the flowers/plants to reproduce but not us.

Mummy I know you're saving $$ but Mommy pls give me that cash. I'd rather study.

Traditional, conventional, typical marriage is indeed not for me...
why should i pay thousands of dollars to please others with a hearty meal. Ok yes their blessing is there but look, its all tit for tat. Afterall people who attend weddings might just place their 'hong bao' & go back with a souvenier and filled tummy, some with intoxicated liver. Oooh after tat, wat we spend is hardly what we get back.

I don't understand the joy in getting married. Again, Mommy pass me the $$$, I'd rather study and learn about life & get ahead far and better as what the psychic told me.

You know that I cant even keep my room clean, how to keep a home clean. You did a very good job, but you literally slogged through it. I don't want to suffer. I've disastrous mood swings and I'm nowadays running away from problems than facing em.

This year taught me how to handle emotions, stress & many many others, yet I feel its not enough.
& No way I'm gonna struggle even more by getting married...

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